Get your first audiobook and two Audible originals free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit www.audible.com/pinkafterblue or text "pinkafterblue" to 500 500. You asked, and I FINALLY made the video: I'm sharing the 12 things we do to raise good kids! - - - - - SOME IDEAS FOR SETTING BOUNDARIES: * What time is bedtime? Does it change on certain days? * Is there a certain time your child can get out of their bed, leave their room, etc * Purposely hurting others (physically, emotionally) is never acceptable * When (after breakfast, after lunch, after dinner, how late?) your child can have snacks * Where can your child take food/drink in your home * Should your child follow directions quickly, the first time given, etc * What does your child have to ask before doing? * Where should your child sleep? * When an adult speaks to your child, they should... * How much _______ (screen time, sweets, etc) your child can have in a day * When can your child go outside? * Where can your child go when they're outside? * Can they have devices at the table? A restaurant? In the car? In their backpack? * Is there anything they have to wait to do until they're a certain age? * We don't purchase things at the grocery store unless they've been added to the list * What toys are only for outside? * What should your child avoid doing to the family pets? * Is your child expected to always tell the truth, be honest with all adults, be honest with parents, etc * When/how often does your child have to bathe, brush teeth, wash hands, brush hair, etc * Is your child expected to be kind to others? * What should your child do if they see someone being unsafe or mean? * Do they have to be dressed a certain way to be able to leave their room, etc? Is underwear ok? (I have four boys, ya'll. Getting a few of my kids to want to wear something other than just boxers is sometimes a struggle in our home. Is this something you feel is important to set a boundary for for your family?) * What can their video games/apps/music they listen to be rated? - - - - - SOME IDEAS FOR EASY REWARDS: * staying up 10/15/20/30 extra minutes * staying out later * getting to bring a friend over * extra story at bedtime * building something specific they want out of blocks/playdoh, etc with a parent * getting to choose breakfast/lunch/dinner * paint their nails * extra ____ minutes of screen time * unlimited time on a device * download a new app (preferably free or set whatever $ limit ahead of time) * playing a board game of their choice with who they want * playing a Mario Kart, etc game against a parent * have a picnic/tea party (inside or out) * family movie * learning dance moves together from YouTube as a family * extra piece of candy * going to the library and loading up on books * getting a new board game * making slime together * pack of gum * getting to go to Target, Barnes and Noble, etc and pick out a new book of their choice * extra dessert * extra soda/juice/chocolate milk * lego minifigure/Hatchimal colleggtible egg (get a container of 12 and only give one for each time they get to 6 or however many points)/LOL doll * new sticker for their water bottle/sticker book/computer * a new football/baseball card - - - - - PRODUCTS SHOWN: [[ I paid for all products shown in the video except for my phone case, which was gifted. I do receive a small commission from some of the affiliate links you see below, but it doesn't cost you any extra, & I appreciate it so much! - xo, Lo]] my vlogging camera: amzn.to/2TOYpAD my curling wand: amzn.to/2TRSGu5 Create your Amazon baby registry with this link to save $$$! amzn.to/2WdtGis My jewelry is from RocksBox - Want your first one for FREE? www.talkable.com/x/jNqMHI - - - - - - CONNECT WITH ME: I N S T A G R A M @pinkafterblue S N A P C H A T lofrenzel T W I T T E R @pinkafterblue F A C E B O O K www.facebook.com/PinkAfterBlue/ E M A I L pinkafterblue@gmail.com #howtoraisegoodkids #parentingtipsfor2020 #gamechangingparenting

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