Grace and her wife, Kenyaette tied the knot ten years ago, but didn't live together since Kenyaetta was active military. Two years ago, Grace invited her mother, Eve, to move in with her. Then, last year, Kenyaette retired from the Army and moved home and in with Grace and Eve. However, Kenyaette's relationship with her mother-in-law has been fraught with conflict. Here, Iyanla advices Kenyaette to take ownership of her home in order to fix the family breakdown. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit bit.ly/1pqTI5s Find OWN on TV at www.oprah.com/FindOWN #OWNTV #FIXMYLIFE #IyanlaVanzant SUBSCRIBE: bit.ly/1vqD1PN Download the Watch OWN App: bit.ly/2hr1nX2 About Iyanla: Fix My Life: In the popular self-help series, “Iyanla: Fix My Life”, bestselling author, spiritual life coach and television host Iyanla Vanzant goes behind closed doors to help people whose relationships and lives have broken down. About OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network is the first and only network named for, and inspired by, a single iconic leader. Oprah Winfrey's heart and creative instincts inform the brand -- and the magnetism of the channel. Winfrey provides leadership in programming and attracts superstar talent to join her in primetime, building a global community of like-minded viewers and leading that community to connect on social media and beyond. OWN is a singular destination on cable. Depth with edge. Heart. Star power. Connection. And endless possibilities. Discover OWN TV: Find OWN on your TV!: bit.ly/1wJ0ugI Our Fantastic Lineup: bit.ly/1qMi2jE Connect with OWN Online: Visit the OWN WEBSITE: bit.ly/1qMi2jE Like OWN on FACEBOOK: on.fb.me/1AXYujp Follow OWN on TWITTER: bit.ly/1sJin8Y Follow OWN on INSTAGRAM: bit.ly/LnqzMz Follow OWN on PINTEREST: bit.ly/2dvfPeN Iyanla Urges a Wife to Stop "Acting Like a Tenant" In Her Own Home | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN www.youtube.com/user/OWN