With increasing concern over domestic violence levels in Australia he asks whether patriarchal cultures are not only failing women, but also failing men. Subscribe to TEDxStKilda for ideas worth spreading, produced by Geonewmedia. www.tedxstkilda.com Danny Blay is a qualified Men’s Behaviour Change Program facilitator and counsellor. His key achievements included the contribution to an expanded and coordinated approach to family violence in Victoria, the development of innovative training on family violence prevention for the community sector and fostering formal working relationships with other aligned organisations and stakeholders. Danny has made significant contributions to the development of improved and innovative ways in which family violence is addressed in Victoria, including the training of sector workers. In a previous life Danny has been a youth and parenting support worker and has had a long association with community radio. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx