Probably the best research is the Minnesota Twins Study, where twins were born and then they were separated from each other and they grow up separate. And then they came together 40 years after separation. What they found was the twins that were separated were very similar with their behavior and psychologically. And so that is the beginning infancy study of psychogenetics. But what we need to understand is when someone is critical, they were criticized; and when someone abandons, they were rejected. And when someone has someone set an unreal expectation for them, then they then set unreal expectation for others. So if we look at our behaviors and we ask ourselves the question, “Where do we learn each behavior from?” “Who do we learn to internalize from?” “Who do we learn to personalize from?” “Who do we learn to set high standards from?” If we have an answer for where learn that from, what that then means is that we are bonding with that pattern. We’re our seeing our life through someone else’s eyes. And if we don’t help people to identify that, then they go through their whole life seeing their life through someone else’s eyes and those eyes are always coming back to them and telling them that they are inadequate and not enough. Call 562-420-8884 chiroman.com

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