Is abandonment personal? Abandonment is not personal. It is a generational passing. So people who get abandoned experience abandonment. And so we tend to take it personally, but if we really look at it from a person who is truly awake, we see that when we experience abandonment, all we have to do is look with our eyes open to see, what did the parent experience? And if the parent experienced abandonment, then they will transfer and project abandonment to their child and it will go from one generation to the next. Call 562-420-8884 chiroman.com