If a man or a woman has a right spinal curve, they are seeking outside female approval. That is the first issue. And in most cases, they start with the mother and then they look for that approval from other females. On the other hand, a right spinal curvature for both male and female will indicate a very high standard pattern of behavior and that means that they heard the message “if you do, something do it right.” They interpreted that message as perfect. Perfect, meaning flawless or without a flaw. So they thought that when they attained something, when they gave their best and attained it, then looked for the outside approval from the female source, that they would receive it. What happened so many times is they don’t receive the approval so they get confused. They think that they haven’t done enough. So that is normally the situation with the right curve people. Their message is, “I always give my best” but they follow that up with, “How can I improve?” We would coach them to say “I always give my best” and then coach them to say, “My best is enough for me”. And by learning to validate our greatness, we learn to stengthen our identity. We learn to dissipate ourselves from the inherited confusion within the generational passing. Call 562-420-8884 chiroman.com

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