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Addiction | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Withdraw To Numb The Hurt An addiction is anything a person uses to withdraw from what they feel. So I can be addicted to control. I can be addicted to anger. I can be addicted to sex, to work, to alcohol, to drugs. But there are so many different addictions that people use to numb the hurt that they feel.

There are probably hundreds of addictions that are present with people. It can be an addiction to control or an addiction to rejection or an addiction to inadequacy or an addiction to criticism or to blame, or addiction to shame or the addictions that we’re more commonly aware of – addiction to work, sex, these type of things. But there are literally hundreds of addictions.

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Approval Failure | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Male? Female? Seeking approval is never healthy for the spine. Either a person is deviating left in the spine, needing male approval, or they are deviating right in the spine needing female approval. Or they may deviate both left and right in the spine, needing both male and female approval.

The minute that we go and look for outside approval, we want to make sure that we have observed that person we are seeking approval from approving of themself. If they have not learned to approve of themself, they will not approve of us.

Now, the problem comes when we give our best, we look for approval and we don’t get it. Then we think we haven’t done enough, and that is when we start seeing a spine go forward in a curve. And that is when a person becomes more driven, thinking by doing more they will get what they need.

And the problem is, it doesn’t matter what they do, it doesn’t matter what they attain, they are seeking something from someone that they cannot receive it from. Meaning that person has not mastered it within self and if we have not mastered it within self, we can’t give it to someone else.

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Addicted To Approval | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Self-Approval Receiving approval can be dangerous to a person’s identity. The reason for that is we will get all excited when we get approval. And we will think, “Wow! We’re doing really well, because so-and-so approved of us.”

And then the next thing we will find is that same person who approved of us one day will withhold approval for the next 2 weeks. And so it is very dangerous to be addicted to needing outside approval.

If we are going to be addicted to something, be addicted to giving yourself the approval, the validation, the encouragement and the love you need. Stay within self rather than looking outside of yourself and expecting something from someone that they cannot give to you.

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Becoming More Driven | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Get Approval Most people think that approval works based on what we do. And so people think that if they do something well enough that they will get the approval they need.

What happens is, people give their best. They seek approval from someone who has not mastered self-approval and cannot give them approval. And then they think they have not done enough. So they become more driven, thinking that by doing more, they will get more.

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Invisible Injuries | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Pain Relief My dad came up with this phrase, “The sad tale of the invisible injury,” about 25 years ago. He was talking about how so many of the patients that were coming in to see him would come in with x-rays that were already taken but the x-rays were taken in a non-stress load position.

So in his situation, he said if there is a seated injury or a simulated seated injury and we lay that person down or stand them up, then what we are doing is misleading the patient because we are not seeing the true extent of that injury.

So "the sad tale of the invisible injury" was an injury that is missed when a doctor takes a segmental x-ray and the segmental x-rays do not reveal anything wrong, then that doctor has a hard time explaining why the person is in pain. Whereas the systemic x-ray would not be difficult at all to give clarity to that patient as to why they are suffering the way they are.

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Inherited Genetics | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Seeking Approval What are inherited genetics and its impact on the family? Well, first of all, every family is impacted by inherited genetics.

An example would be I happened to be a right curve spinal pattern. I followed a brother. My mother wanted a daughter. So therefore, I am more female dominant and emotional. The right curve man will attract a left curve female. A left curve female in many cases is an issue where the father wants a boy and gets a girl. So what does that girl become – very dominant, very strong and very controlling.

So this just shows a basic example of psychogenetics. And then if we look at it a generation back, we would say, “Okay, well my mother was raised in a family with 10 kids. Her father wanted boys to farm.” Out of the first 6 kids, I think there were 5 girls and my mom was right in that mix.

So we see how my mom was strong and dominant. So then she would have to attract a male that was more female dominant which my dad was, more emotional, more sensitive. He sought his mother’s approval and not his father’s approval because his mother was present and his father was more absent. So this just gives you an example of how psychogenetics is impacting every family life and how a dominant mother will pass down to the son a high expectation pattern. The son will think that if they do it well enough, they will get what they need.

And so they will give their best and they will look for approval. When the approval doesn’t come, then what they will think is they haven’t done enough. And so that just shows you a few examples of how psychogenetics can impact a person and create confusion within their identity and reality.

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Inherited Abandonment | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Internal Hurt The imperative pattern associated with backward spinal curve would be inherited abandonment. And that deals with how male parents withdraw from the family.

Either they are working and withdrawing from family or they are not present at all. So when we see an extreme backward curve, we are looking at generation after generation after generation of male parents who withdrew from the family.

And so that backward curve then really gets into how people take their hurt internally and how they want to withdraw from it or how they want to run from their hurt. So it is so important to understand that a backward curve indicating male parent abandonment, then will impact the person’s life in how they deal with the hurt that they are experiencing in their life. And so it is important to make these points and make them clear so people understand how these issues pass from one generation to the next.

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Independent Love | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Love Projection The difference between intention and outcome is very simple. Intention is, “Did the person give their best?” If they gave their best, then they need to master validating themself.

When we go into outcome, what we are looking at is we’re giving our best and we are looking for someone outside of us to validate us. And that becomes a far more difficult journey. So I would suggest that we look at our intention. Did we give our best? Yes? Then that it is enough. And I would stay completely out of outcome.

“Oh, I gave my best. Is that enough for this person outside of me?” That is dangerous, and I don’t want people to be asleep in their life. I want people to be awake in their life. And when we’re awake, we don’t need someone’s approval. When we’re asleep, it is when we need someone’s approval and we want people to wake up and give themself the approval they need.

We want to give them tools to learn to validate self to learn to encourage self and most importantly to learn to embed love in life when life is working well and when life is not working so well, because our love for ourselves should never change.

We should love ourselves when we are in struggle, or when we’re not. And that is really what love is about. Love can either be co-dependent, which really relates to:

“If you do something, I will love you.”
“If you do it well, I will love you.”
“If you get an A, I will love you.”

On the other hand, independent love says that I will love you, no matter what you do. And that is really what love is about. We want to encourage people to meet their life and to meet their challenge with the love process, to learn that they are worth loving and it is important that they are embedding it every single day. Many, many times a day if there is a lot of dysfunction around you, meet the fear projections with the love projection.

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High Standards | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Grandmother Approval Every time a person has a right spinal curve, it just indicates that they had either a mother, a grandmother, a great grandmother who set very high standards. They were taught to look for approval. And when that approval didn’t come, then the person gets confused and sets a higher standard. And if that approval doesn’t come, they keep seeking higher and higher outcomes.

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Hereditary Emotion Issues | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Dysfunction My dad started with a spinal blueprint. He looked at angles of the body. They were the occipital angle, atlas angle, the first thoracic vertebrae angle, the thoracic apex, the thoracic apex level, the T12 angle, how far forward or backward the lumbar curve was going, and the sacral angle, just to mention the few of the angles.

What he began to realize is that each angle of the body gave us information psychogenetically of issues that are taking place currently, but had a hereditary origin long before these current issues. So these angles are key for us to identify the dysfunction that a person may be carrying. And it's very helpful to shift angles through a very simple means, so that we can ultimately change those basic patterns and behavior, so someone doesn’t stay stuck in these issues.

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Healthy Denial | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | It Is Not Personal Unhealthy denial really deals with taking powerful information that can change their life, but they are choosing to deny it. That is unhealthy denial.

Healthy denial would be any time someone is projecting fear, judgment, blame, shame, criticism, resentment or anger. What we need to understand is those issues are originating in the person who is projecting them.

And so what we need understand about that is we want to deny access to any fear-based projection. And when we do that, that just means that we don’t lose our identity when someone is critical of us. We don’t lose our identity when someone rejects us. We realize we see that they are coming from an injury and they are transferring that injury to someone else. And once we understand it is not personal, that it is not about us, we can transform that issue within us.

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Generational Inadequacy | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Expectations In right spinal curvatures, the inherited issue is generational inadequacy that is disguised in expectation. So our parent doesn’t say “I gave my best, but my best was never good enough for my parent.” Our parent says, “If you do something, do it right.”

So they are only giving us a partial truth. And so it is important that we understand that generational inadequacy impacts every single life. We either get it from our male parent or our female parent and in some cases we get it from both parents. And when we get inherited inadequacy from a female parent, we will see a right spinal curvature pattern.

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Fibromyalgia | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Female Cancers There are many diseases associated with left spinal curvature and I will mention a few. Fibromyalgia is a left spinal curvature pattern. Chronic fatigue is a left spinal curvature pattern. Lyme’s disease, you will find left curve. You will also find it in breast cancer, uterine cancer and cervical cancer. Oftentimes prior to the cancer, you will find the women in left spinal curvature patterns.

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Female Over-Push | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Dominant Mother Over years and years of study, we began to realize that as the spine deviates forward, the person becomes more driven. And the more forward the spinal curvature is, the more driven that person is. If it is a male who has an extreme forward curve, then we would then know that the mother was dominant and driven. And so the correlation to the forward curve really deals with strong females that over-push, that push through their fatigue, that don’t listen to their body, that are driven for whatever reason, which commonly relates to their need for outside approval.

And so if they don’t get the approval that they needed, then they think they haven’t done enough, they become more driven. And the more driven they become, the more forward the spinal curve deviates from normal.

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Fear-Based Projection | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Self-Criticism A fear-based projection deals with judgment, blame, shame, criticism, resentment or anger. Any time a person judges, their projecting in most cases. When they are critical, they project their self-criticism on others. So what I see as a fear based projection are those things I mentioned.

Is someone super critical? Are they judging? Are they resenting? Are they blaming? Are they shaming? Are they resenting? All of these issues are really considered fear-based projections.

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Father Approval | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Denial Pattern Left spinal curve patients look for approval from a male-related source. For instance, women with left spinal curvature will seek father approval, but they won’t ask their father for it. They won’t tell their father what they need. They will expect that their father knows what they need and so what ultimately happens is they do not get their needs fulfilled.

So it is so important that we understand that in a female in a left curve, it’s also a denial pattern. They are needing their father’s approval and it is important for them to learn how to ask for what they need instead of expect someone knows what they need. Because I can tell you it never works out for that person if they are waiting for someone to fulfill them.

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Expectation To Attachment | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Appreciate An expectation to attachment is when we believe that when we attain different things, we will be enough. An example of that would be when I get my new car, I will be happy. When I get my new relationship, I will be happy. When I get my new house, I will be happy. When I have a million dollars in the bank, I will be happy.

In truth, with an expectation to attachment, when you get your new car, you want a better one. When you get your new relationship, you want a different one. When you get the new house, you will want a better one. And when you get a million dollars in the bank, you will want two.

So expectations to attachments really are misdirections. And we really should coach people to strive to be enough without what they think they need to be happy, because once they then receive something, they can appreciate it.

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Emotional Pattern | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Anger Reaction In men with strong denial curves, the spine would deviate backward in the curve, meaning they withdraw from what they feel. And it will also deviate right in the curve, and that is an emotional pattern. And when you ask the men about it, they will say they are not emotional. But when they react in anger, it is a complete emotional response. So that is the denial, strong denial curve in a male.

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Emotional Breakdown | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Emotional Hurt An emotional spinal pattern would be a pattern where the spine is going forward in a curve. That's emotional. And when a spine deviates right, that is emotional. And then if the spinal cord has failed to stretch and now it is coming back, there is a compression on the cord, that it is also emotional.

So that is an emotional pattern that we see often and when we see that, we know that that person is going to personalize everything that takes place, any comment that is made, they are going to take it personally. It is going to trigger the feeling of hurt and then they are going to overreact to that hurt and that’s where you see people going into emotional breakdown. And so with this pattern we often times find that a forward curve is emotional and a right curve is emotional.

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Driven Spinal Pattern | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Strong Women In my opinion a driven spinal pattern begins in psychogenetics, meaning it deals with strong women who over-push generationally. And we all have seen a strong woman in our family lineage that push and push and pushed and that is the origin. I might see it as my mom, but my mom made me saw it as her mom. And so on and so forth.

My belief is that driven patterns of behavior are psychogenetically passed. They ride genealogy and the person continues to push, push and push until their body begins to breakdown.

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Driven Behavior | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Saving Energy Driven behavior is not healthy for a spine. What is healthy for a spine is understanding that energy is vital. And if our energy is low, we need to slow it down and allow energy to come back.

The goal should be how can we do the things we want to do and save energy while we do that. And we should keep our focus in on saving energy, not depleting energy. And with driven patterns of behavior, they never focus in on having energy in reserve.

And so when energy is exhausted completely, the person goes into an immune compromised state, and they become sick. And so we really want to encourage people to slow it down, to understand that the answer is not pushing yourself to complete exhaustion. That we should have energy in reserve and that we should not over-utilize our energy at any point.

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Body Trauma Treatment | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Injury Care I think that there is a place for both segmental and systemic x-rays. Segmental x-rays are important when there is trauma. Systemic x-rays are important when the segmental x-rays do not show the underlying injury.

And so in that case, the full spine x-ray is far more powerful because we get to see the whole person as an intact person. And I think when we look at systems we understand that a system is more than the sum of its parts.

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Birth Parents | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Adopted Parents In our work, it is very clear that it is not the parent who raises the child that shows up in their spinal blueprint. It is more relative to their birth parents. So even if they are abandoned and adopted by a new set of parents, what’s going to show up in their structure is their birth parents and not their adopted parents.

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Being Criticized | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Withdraw From Hurt Denial is associated with a backward spinal curvature. The further a spine goes backward, the more that person is going to withdraw from what they feel. And when they are being criticized, you will see this from person to person, when someone is critical of someone, what that person who is being criticized will want to do is run away. And that is what we pick up with the backward curve and their eventual withdraw from the hurt that they feel.

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Withdraw From Reality | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Numb The Hurt An addiction is a withdrawal from a person’s reality. So when people are in an addiction, they are going to attempt to numb whatever hurt they feel, which is a withdrawal. And it is a withdrawal from their emotional reality. Meaning they are in more of a logic pattern, so the further a curve goes away, backward from normal, the more that person is withdrawing from them self.

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We Are All Perfect | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Embrace Your Parts The definition of perfection would be “flawless or without a flaw”. In our work, we tend to look at the unabridged dictionary term of perfection, which is “having all your parts, lacking nothing, being complete and being whole.” And under that definition, we are all perfect.

Meaning our negatives and our positives are a part of our totalness or a part of our completeness. And so it is not a part to eliminate, it is a part to embrace. And so I tend to like the second definition of “having all your parts, lacking nothing, being complete and being whole.”

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Strong Denial | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Rationalizing Hurt The strong denial pattern in a woman would be both a backward curve and left spinal curvature pattern. So what happens is they get hurt, they take that hurt internally. They then process it logically. They then rationalize it and then they withdraw from it and then deny it.

So with a strong denial, often times they will be passive. They will not want to conflict. And so in these extreme denial patients with women, you will always see a left spinal curvature and a backward spinal curvature and that is the strong denial case.

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Step Up To Fear | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Paranoia & Paralysis When a spine deviates left, logic becomes irrational. Irrational logic sets up fear. Fear sets up paranoia. Paranoia sets up paralysis.

So there is such a correlation between left curvature patterns and heavy fear patterns. So we want to help people understand that fear in most cases is not real. Once we step up to fear, fear will disappear. For instance, a person might be fearful of public speaking until they give their first speech or second speech. Once you do a couple speeches, all of a sudden, the fear is not there anymore, so that is a good example of how this process works.

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Simple Strategies | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Collar & Wedge The simple strategies to reduce a forward spinal curvature pattern would be instruct the patient to wear a cervical collar with a high part under the chin.

When they stand, if they are forward in the curve, they are in most cases forward sitting. So we would instruct them to wear the collar when the person sits.

My dad invented the seat wedge that when people sit on it, we commonly get about a 40% improvement in the spine in a minute in time. And so the seat wedge helps to bring the mid-back curve that is forward, backward. And it helps to bring the neck that is forward, backward, closer to normal.

So the simpler strategies are what works. So when it is simple, it works. And a collar works and a seat wedge works to reduce the former curvature exhaustion spinal pattern.

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Separated Twins | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Inherited Inadequacy Probably the best research is the Minnesota Twins Study, where twins were born and then they were separated from each other and they grow up separate. And then they came together 40 years after separation.

What they found was the twins that were separated were very similar with their behavior and psychologically. And so that is the beginning infancy study of psychogenetics. But what we need to understand is when someone is critical, they were criticized; and when someone abandons, they were rejected.

And when someone has someone set an unreal expectation for them, then they then set unreal expectation for others. So if we look at our behaviors and we ask ourselves the question, “Where do we learn each behavior from?” “Who do we learn to internalize from?” “Who do we learn to personalize from?” “Who do we learn to set high standards from?”

If we have an answer for where learn that from, what that then means is that we are bonding with that pattern. We’re our seeing our life through someone else’s eyes. And if we don’t help people to identify that, then they go through their whole life seeing their life through someone else’s eyes and those eyes are always coming back to them and telling them that they are inadequate and not enough.

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Seeking Approval | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Logic Patterns A left spinal curvature pattern indicates that that will person will seek male approval, male encouragement and male validation. A left spinal curvature pattern is a logic pattern, which means that that person will tend to over-think or over-process.

And ultimately as I said earlier, that issue of approval is very important because the left curve person will seek male parent approval first, male peer approval second and often times they will seek it from a person that doesn’t approve of self, so can’t give it to them.

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Rejection Is Not Personal | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Generations Abandonment is not personal. We tend to take rejection personally, but people who reject people were rejected. So if someone is rejected and then they reject someone, the person who is being rejected or abandoned, that is not personal. It is a projection that is being transferred from one generation to the next.

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Reactive Rage | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Inherited Anger People with right spinal curvature patterns will look for approval from female sources. For instance, if it is a male with a right curve, he will seek his mother’s approval or his wife’s approval. And when he gives his best and he doesn’t get the approval that he thinks he should receive, then that triggers a feeling of inadequacy which then triggers a reactive rage issue.

So a lot of men today are right curve and a lot of men today are looking for approval from their wives and when their wife doesn’t give it to them, then they explode in anger. And so it is also important to understand that explosion in anger is almost always inherited and it commonly comes through a male source of some sort.

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Pushing Hard | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Seeking Approval People push themselves hard because they experience someone before them who pushed themselves hard. They also pushed themselves hard because they are seeking outside approval in most cases from people who have not mastered approval. And so when I seek approval from someone who has not mastered approval, no matter what I do, it is never good enough to get approval from that person.

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Psychogenetic Behavior | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Spine X-rays I do not have a license to do psychology. I did take some courses in psychology in my pre-med program as well as my chiropractic program. However, under our license, we are allowed to counsel.

And then I want to make one more point. This isn’t psychology. There is not a psychologist in the world that looks at the spine to identify human behavior or who looks at the spine to identify psychogenetic behavior. And psychogenetic behavior is the behavior that rides genealogy, that is seen in the structure analysis, and that many times it is an indication of what a person has inherited and what they are seeing their life through.

In most cases, people see their life through someone else’s eyes. Our process is to help a person to identify really who they are not, not who they are. Because most people don’t show up as much as you think they would in their systemic x-ray study.

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Projected Abandonment | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Generational Is abandonment personal? Abandonment is not personal. It is a generational passing. So people who get abandoned experience abandonment. And so we tend to take it personally, but if we really look at it from a person who is truly awake, we see that when we experience abandonment, all we have to do is look with our eyes open to see, what did the parent experience? And if the parent experienced abandonment, then they will transfer and project abandonment to their child and it will go from one generation to the next.

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People Who Abandon Get Rejected | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 Abandonment is generational so people who abandon experienced abandonment. People who reject usually were first abandoned. So abandonment is an issue that goes from one generation to the next and impacts many lives along the way.

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Passive Aggressive | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Perfectionism The backward and left curve is relative to mental patterns of behavior. The forward and right curve are more emotional patterns of behavior. So what we find basically is a backward curve deals with a person who has been taught to internalize and withdraw from what they feel, so they are more passive. We find that a forward curve is more of a driven pattern of behavior so they are more assertive and they can also be aggressive. Both patterns can be aggressive.

A left curve is far more logic. Therefore, it’s more mental. It is how a person deals with hurt. A left curve person will internalize, rationalize, over-process the hurt, withdraw from the hurt and deny the hurt.

A right curve person is dealing more with an emotional pattern. Often times right curve people have very high standards. They tend to be perfectionists. They also seek female parent approval. So all four of these basic patterns tell a story.

And when you combine the 4 patterns in a study on the patient, you immediately have way more information than just looking at the spine and seeing if there is a local dislocation or a compressed disc or arthritic spurring. It gives us far more information to help a person who is struggling to find their way.

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Obsessive-Compulsive | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 |Parent Behavior Obsessive compulsive behavior is associated with left spinal curve. However, in that example, the curve is going extremely left and in many cases they are going to show both peer dysfunction and parent dysfunction. The peer dysfunction can be relative to them-self or another peer. The parent dysfunction can be relative to their parent or their parent’s parent. So in this example, that is really what that relates.

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Mother Approval | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Self-Validation If a man or a woman has a right spinal curve, they are seeking outside female approval. That is the first issue. And in most cases, they start with the mother and then they look for that approval from other females. On the other hand, a right spinal curvature for both male and female will indicate a very high standard pattern of behavior and that means that they heard the message “if you do, something do it right.”

They interpreted that message as perfect. Perfect, meaning flawless or without a flaw. So they thought that when they attained something, when they gave their best and attained it, then looked for the outside approval from the female source, that they would receive it.

What happened so many times is they don’t receive the approval so they get confused. They think that they haven’t done enough. So that is normally the situation with the right curve people. Their message is, “I always give my best” but they follow that up with, “How can I improve?”

We would coach them to say “I always give my best” and then coach them to say, “My best is enough for me”. And by learning to validate our greatness, we learn to stengthen our identity. We learn to dissipate ourselves from the inherited confusion within the generational passing.

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Mental Stress | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Emotional Stress The spine has so much to do with mental and emotional makeup. For instance, a left curve and a backward curve is more of a mental stress. The left curve deals with logic and logic is a mental stress.

On the other hand, a forward curve and a right curve deals with emotional stress. And then throughout the structure there are angles that deal with mental stress and angles in the body that deal with emotional stress.

So we have made these correlations over the course of really 50 years when my dad began this work. And as a result of these correlations, we are learning more and more every day. And as we see more conditions and different types of conditions, we begin to identify what the pattern is. Once we understand that pattern, then we can help people, even when they don’t have an issue yet. We can help them to prevent themselves from getting that issue.

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Master Self-Approval | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Embed Love It is important to learn to encourage, validate, and approve of self, because most people on the planet are looking for those things from people outside of them. And in most cases they are looking for it from a person who has not mastered it within self.

And if they haven’t mastered it within self, it doesn’t matter how great you are, it doesn’t matter how great of a job you do. You could come home and say, “I got an A!” and your parent could say, “Well, why didn’t you get an A+?” That’s how that pattern works.

So to me, it is a fundamental key element to strengthening identity and a person’s reality to get into a process of validating self every day, encouraging self everyday and approving of self every day. And also embedding love commands is vital for our health and for our identity.

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Male Parent Withdrawal | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Internal Hurt The inherited pattern associated with the backward spinal curve is inherited male parent abandonment. It is an indication that not only has one generation experienced male parent withdrawal but in many cases, it’s multiple generations of male parents who either worked a lot or who were not present at all.

And so what we find with backward curves is we find male parent withdrawal and then we find that the person then takes their hurt internally and withdraws from the hurt they feel so that is a byproduct of a male parent abandonment profile.

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Love Yourself | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Purpose In Life When we see a patient who comes in a backward spinal curve and I ask them what their purpose is, they almost always answer the same. They have no idea. It is like a ship at sea without a rudder. They are always going, but they have no power over the direction they are going in.

So when we do see this backward curve, it commonly indicates that the person doesn’t know their purpose and they are confused in their life and they might be pushing themselves really hard but they are not validating it. And so to me, it is so important for a person in a backward curve to understand if they don’t know their purpose, then it is very important to start with a purpose of love.

Meaning, that they start their day with telling themself, they love themself. They are in their day, telling themself they love themself. And if there is any fear projection that takes place to them throughout the day, they meet that fear projection with a love for self. And to me, the greatest purpose of all is a purpose of finding love within self and then transferring the love you find within and transferring it to the people you love outside of you.

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Love Commands | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Loving Energy When I see a person with a backward spinal curvature, I often times will ask them what their purpose is. Their answer is usually always the same. They don’t have a clue as to what their purpose is. And so when I see that backward curve, I really want to coach them and encourage them to develop a purpose of love, meaning that they start their day with love, they go through their day in a loving energy and they end their day in a loving energy.

And when fear is projected on to them, they meet that fear projection with love. Because when we meet it with love, it has no weight to become destructive. So it is very important that we understand these simple strategies and this one is vital: that we start our day with a love command, that we meet fear projection with a love command, and that we end our day with a love command.

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Life’s Biggest Misdirection | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Intention It is always important within each individual person to look at their intention. And their intention oftentimes is to give their best. If that is their intention and they are stepping up and giving their best effort, then it is vital that they are coming back and validating that effort, not just setting a higher level of expectation.

Because in this situation people attain and attain and attain, but they never get to a point where they are happy with what they attained. And to me that is the greatest misdirection a person can have.

So my coaching on this is “give your best, follow that with a validation that you gave your best, and realize that that’s relative to energy.” Our best is different when we have an abundance of energy. And when our energy is lower, our best is different. It still may be our best but we just don’t have the same level of energy to carry it out.

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Irrational Rationality | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Spinal Deviation Irrational rationality relates to a left spinal curvature that is going extremely left. We start seeing that pattern increase once the spine deviates about an inch left. But as it goes to 2 inches, 3 inches, 4 inches left, that pattern becomes far more irrational.

And so an example of irrational rationality is you will talk to people who are heavy logic and you will ask them the question and they will say, “Oh, yes that’s true” and then they say “but” and when they use the word “but” that negates everything they have said before the “but” and now begins the irrational rationality. We call that “but therapy”.

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Irrational Logic | Long Beach | 562-420-8884 | Worry & Paranoia A left spinal curvature pattern is a logic pattern. That brings up a point. It means that as we think, as we think about our problem, the logic becomes irrational. As irrational logic increases, then people increase their worry. They begin to worry. Then they become more paranoid. So there is definitely a correlation between left curve and logic patterns.

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